Why don't you want a mate who is overweight?
Well, the reason is because I am not particularly attracted to someone who is overweight, and it seems that all the women with whom I get to open comm with are overweight. I don't believe that it'll be such a big deal when I'll be in a commited married relationship, although I don't want to start there. So this way, if this applies to them, they can close communication when they see this criteria and save us both time and heartache. It's no different than another of my criteria; see I have never been married and don't have children yet. It's something else I want in a woman, i.e. never married & no children; not that I hate women who've been married or children; I just want it to be a fresh start for both of us.