Many different factors determine the communication styles with which you are most comfortable. Some individuals thrive on the challenge of pointed criticism, while others are at their best in a nurturing environment where criticism is offered as a suggestion for improvement. Each of us has a unique set of requirements and preferences. Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.

• Show sincere interest as a person.

• Be sincere and use a tone of voice that shows sincerity.

• Patiently draw out personal interests.

• Keep the conversation at the discussion level, rather than confrontation.

• Support ideas for change with facts, figures and logic.

• Start with a personal comment to "break the ice."

• Work to achieve mutual satisfaction.

• Ask "How" questions to draw out opinions.

• Move casually, informally.

• Find areas of common interest and involvement.